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Evolved Souls Don't Need Long Earthly Experiences December 2024

Evolved Souls Don't Need Long Earthly Experiences December 2024

  • Posted
    • Nov
    • 13
    • 2024
by Elizabeth Boisson

Evolved Souls Don’t Need Long Earthly Experiences
 November 2024 by Mark Pitstick, MA, DC


To all family members, I am very sorry about the death of your child’s human form.  (Your daughter and/or son didn't really die even though their earth-suit did.  That's an extremely important distinction.)  I’m glad you are learning how to heal and transform despite this seeming tragedy.  Six key understandings to making that shift are:

     1. Over 99% of who and what your child 'was' is still alive in the next phase of life.  This is true no matter how they passed on.  See the following articles at SoulProof.com for a review of the scientific, clinical, and experiential evidence for this statement.

  1. Again, only their earthly body died: everything else about them continues – all the love, energy, sense of humor, memories, personality, energetic / spiritual body, and much more.

  2. They are happy, peaceful, loving, and enthusiastic – and want you to be that way now too. Read article #2 When a Child Changes Worlds and #93 For Bereaved Parents and Family Members to learn how you can do that. 

         4. You will see them when you pass on and can enjoy a different kind of relationship now.  To learn more about how you can do this, see article #9 Visit With ‘Departed’ Loved Ones Now
     
         5. You can choose – moment by moment – to transmute your grief into a spiritually transformative experience that powerfully improves your life and blesses others.  To learn how, see article #82 Journey from 'Bereaved' to 'Shining Light'

         6. You can heal and share gifts from their life and transition from earth by lovingly serving others.  Read article #84 Heal and Transform Your Suffering.

After a child changes worlds, family members understandably feel much pain, sadness, anger, guilt, and other lower-energy emotions.   No one could or should ever judge that.  However, many have learned to regularly use keys #1 - 6 above and, over time, and feel more peace, joy, love, and gratitude.  To learn more about how you can do this, see article #108 Higher Energies, Emotions, and Ways of Being.    

You can do the same.  It’s not easy and it doesn’t happen overnight, but it is possible with small steps day by day using the above keys and six action steps . . .

  1. Attend online HPH meetings on the Calendar and attend local Affiliate Groups.  (If there's not an in-person group nearby, consider staring one.)   
  2. Use Special Interest Groups that offer more focused service for fathers, siblings, parents of children who passed by suicide or substance abuse, and much more.
  3. Contact The Caring Listeners to talk with at no charge
  1. Read free articles at SoulProof.com and take relevant action steps
  1. Listen to free Radio Shows at SoulProof.com and experts' answers to life’s toughest questions including “Why do children die?”
  1. Lean on others as needed. Later, when you are doing better, you can help others. 

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Q: Our son passed on by suicide and a drug overdose.  We are feeling so many intense emotions: guilt, shock, sadness, shame, anger, and more.  How can we heal from all this and find the blessings? 

A: I am sorry for the pain and suffering you experienced after your child's passing, but I am glad that you are exploring how to heal, find the silver linings, and share them with others.  No matter how a child transitions from earth, it's just their ticket back Home. Unfortunately, parents of a child who passed by suicide often have to deal with misinformed personal, societal, and religious judgement and beliefs.  

After interviewing 130 Shining Light Parents, I realized more clearly how many children pass on by overdose – whether accidental or intentional.  The pattern that emerges with these children is that they likely are: 

  1. more evolved souls who may find earth's density and cruelty too much to bear. 
  2. more sensitive / empathic and, thus, feel lower energies and emotions of others. 
  3. feeling hopeless and angry about the BS that passes for religion. 
  4. missing kindred spirits in their age group.

As a result of #1 - 4, they sometimes try to numb out by self-medicating with drugs and/or alcohol.  Predictably, that leads to worse problems and sometimes overdose 

Many parents want to help other children in similar circumstances and address root causes of this.  The following articles at SoulProof.com may lessen deep grieving for you and others: 

   #2 When a Child Changes Worlds   

   #4 When a Loved One Passes On by Suicide 

   #23 Are You More Evolved and Sensitive / Empathic?

   #36 Suicide: Core Causes and Holistic Solutions 

   #82 Journey FROM Deeply Grieving TO Shining Light

The following audio programs, available at Shining Light Resources, can help:

  1. Holistic Breathing Technique is a powerful way to release profound sadness, guilt, anger, and other common emotions after a child moves into the next phase of forever. (article #70)
  2. Ask Your Soul, Angels, and The Light Technique allows you to access your inner wisdom and that of your spiritual support team. (article #71)
  3. Facilitated Afterlife Contact Technique assists deeper perception of your child who is very much alive, well, and near. (article #9)

Let me know if I can help you and contribute to creating more meaning to your child's passing.  Powerful silver linings always accompany seeming tragedies, but you have to get clear to find them before sharing them with others.  (I say 'seeming' because your child is an eternal manifestation of energy whose life and passing has more meaning and timing than most humans can imagine.  You will see each other again, are soulmates, and are one with Source.  Finally – as discussed in article #25 – you, your son, and others may have planned the possibility of all this.  Why?  For the potentials of more love, service, and awakening.)

Hugs, love, and blessings as you heal, transform, and shine!

Mark

Note #1: As long as my schedule allows, I will email brief but information and resource-packed replies to parents, siblings, and other close family member at no charge.  Just email me at mark@soulproof.com with your biggest questions and toughest challenges and I'll create a personalized holistic program for you.   

Note #2: My inexpensive audio products, books, and documentary film can help you heal, optimally transform, discover the silver linings to your child's bodily death, and use those to help yourself and others.  Email me if you cannot afford any of these products and we’ll send a complimentary digital copy.  

Disclaimer: This information is not designed to replace medical or psychological care.  Dr. Pitstick’s recommendations are based on over fifty years of training and experience in hospitals, pastoral counseling settings, mental health centers, and chiropractic holistic health practice.  Some of his statements are supported by clinical and scientific data while others are based on experiential evidence and his best current understandings.  

Mark Pitstick, MA, DC is an author, counselor with a masters in clinical psychology, holistic chiropractic physician, frequent media guest, and workshop / webinar teacher.  Mark also completed extensive postgraduate training in clinical nutrition.  While attending theology school majoring in pastoral counseling, he provided suicide prevention counseling and education.  Mark directs The SoulPhone Foundation, founded Greater Reality Living groups, and assists SoulPhone Project research for the Laboratory for Advances in Consciousness and Health.  His mission is to help you know and show – no matter what is happening to you or around you – that this earthly experience is a totally safe, meaningful, and magnificent adventure amidst forever.  Visit SoulProof.com for free articles, radio shows, and newsletters. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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