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Evolved Souls Don't Need Long Earthly Experiences May 2025

Evolved Souls Don't Need Long Earthly Experiences May 2025

  • Posted
    • Apr
    • 18
    • 2025
by Elizabeth Boisson

Evolved Souls Don’t Need Long Earthly Experiences
 April 2025 by Mark Pitstick, MA, DC


To all family members, I am very sorry about the death of your child’s human form.  (Your daughter and/or son didn't really die even though their earth-suit did.  That's an extremely important distinction.)  I’m glad you are learning how to heal and transform despite this seeming tragedy.  Six key understandings to making that shift are:

            1. Over 99% of who and what your child 'was' is still alive in the next phase of life.  This is true no matter how they passed on.  See the following articles at SoulProof.com for a review of the scientific, clinical, and experiential evidence for this statement.

    (Note: these and all articles referenced are free at SoulProof.com/Articles)

            2. Only their earthly body died: everything else about them continues – all the love, energy, sense of humor, memories, personality, energetic / spiritual body, and much more. 


  1. They are happy, peaceful, loving, and enthusiastic – and want you to be that way now too. Read article #2 When a Child Changes Worlds to learn how you can do that. 

                4. You will see them when you pass on and can enjoy a different kind of relationship now.  To learn more about how you can do this, see article #9 Visit With ‘Departed’ Loved Ones Now and #28 Afterlife Contacts.   Then use the free Afterlife Contact audio program at Shop. 
     
                5. You can choose – moment by moment – to transmute your grief into a spiritually transformative experience that powerfully improves your life and blesses others.  To learn how, see article #82 Journey from Deeply Grieving to Brightly Shining

                6. You can heal and share gifts from their life and transition from earth by lovingly serving others.  Further, you and your child may have volunteered to take part in a meta-plan as described in article #119 11 Keys to Helping Yourself, Others, and Our World. 

   

After a child changes worlds, family members understandably feel much pain, sadness, anger, guilt, and other lower-energy emotions.   No one could or should ever judge that.  However, many have learned to regularly use keys #1 - 6 above and, over time, and feel more peace, joy, love, and gratitude.  To learn more about how you can do this, see article #108 Higher Energies, Emotions, and Ways of Being.    

You can do the same.  It’s not easy and it doesn’t happen overnight, but it is possible with small steps day by day using the above keys and six action steps . . .

  1. Attend online HPH meetings on the Calendar and attend local Affiliate Groups.  (If there's not an in-person group nearby, consider staring one.)   
  2. Use Special Interest Groups that offer more focused service for fathers, siblings, parents of children who passed by suicide or substance abuse, and much more.  
  3. Contact The Caring Listeners to talk with at no charge
  1. Read free articles and listen to free Radio Shows at SoulProof.com. Then take relevant            action steps 
  1. Use my free audio programs at SoulProof.com/Shop.
  1. Lean on others as needed. Later, when you are doing better, you can help others. 

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Q: Our son has been missing for two years.  We don't know he is dead, abducted, or what.  This is such a horrible situation, especially the thought that he might be suffering or did before he passed on.  What help can you suggest and how can we sense him?

A: I am sorry for what you are going through.  Not knowing has to be horrible.  However, there is hope and help no matter what happened. 

In either case, please fully use Helping Parents Heal (HPH) resources listed at Shining Light Resources.  Especially use the Caring Listeners who can help you and your husband through this.  The videos from interviews with Shining Light Parents can teach you how to sense him whether he is fully living on earth or the next phase of forever. 

Regarding his suffering, good evidence suggests that the soul / consciousness can detach from the human body before suffering and/or death begin.  To learn more about this, see article #126 Can the Soul Exit the Body Before Suffering and Death. 

 

  1. If he has not passed on, you might try sensing him via a great medium. HPH has numerous mediums who present weekday classes and are available for parents. https://www.helpingparentsheal.org/providers/  Others are listed in article #6 Evidential Mediums at SoulProof.com/Articles.  The contact methods under B may help you sense him even if he is still on earth.

 

Your grief can be addressed with the Healing article #82 and videos at my Greater Reality Healing Program (https://www.soulproof.com/greater-reality-healing/)

 

  1. If he has passed on, the best current ways to communicate with him include: 

 

  1. Induced ADC technique by Alan Botkins PsyD.  https://www.induced-adc.com

 

  1. Evidential mediumsas discussed above

 

  1. Afterlife Contact Techniqueas described in article #9 Visiting ‘Departed’ Loved Ones Now

 Visit SoulProof.com/Shop for the free Afterlife Contact audio program.  

 

All these methods work better when people know without a doubt that life continues after bodily death.  To learn the evidence, read these articles and/or my free The Afterlife Evidence book: 

   #1 Scientific Evidence That Bodily Death Is NOT the End of Life

   #60 Clinical Evidence That Life Continues After Physical Death

   #115 Experiential Evidence for Life After Death

 

Contact with loved ones is also aided by shedding lower-energy emotions.  Anger, guilt, deep sadness, regret, and others are common after loved ones pass on.  These 'negative' feelings and resulting ways of being can hamper or block efforts at contact.  Three ways to release lower-energy emotions to lighten your grief and prepare for better communication are discussed in articles: 

 

   #70  Holistic Breathing Technique 

 

   #71  Ask Your Soul, Angels, and The Light

 

   #77  Centering Practices 

 

  #51  Meditation and Yoga 

 

Let me know if you or any readers have any questions about this.  

 

Hugs, love, and blessings, 

Mark


Note #1: As long as my schedule allows, I will email brief but information and resource-packed replies to parents, siblings, and other close family members at no charge.  Just email me at mark@soulproof.com with your biggest questions and toughest challenges and I'll create a personalized holistic program for you.   

Note #2: As mentioned above, my audio products, e-books, and audio books are now FREE.  This evidence-based information and holistic resources can literally help every aspect of your life.  I want everyone around the world to have access to this evidence-based information and holistic resources.  I only ask that you use them, share them with others, and help others when you are able to do so.   

Disclaimer: This information is not designed to replace medical or psychological care.  Dr. Pitstick’s recommendations are based on over fifty years of training and experience in hospitals, pastoral counseling settings, mental health centers, and chiropractic holistic health practice.  Some of his statements are supported by clinical and scientific data while others are based on experiential evidence and his best current understandings.  

Mark Pitstick, MA, DC is an author, counselor, masters level clinical psychologist, holistic chiropractic physician, frequent media guest, and workshop / webinar teacher.  While attending theology school majoring in pastoral counseling, he provided suicide prevention counseling and education. 

Mark is the spokesperson and strategic planner for the SoulPhone Project, and assists research for the Laboratory for Advances in Consciousness and Health.  He created four programs with evidence-based information, holistic resources, 'The Great News', and The 8 Developments that enable personal and planetary transformation.  The programs include:

Greater Reality LIVING Program (article #72)

Greater Reality HEALING Program (article #82)

 

Greater Reality HELPING Program (article #119)

 

Greater Reality SHARING Program (article #122)

His mission is to help you know and show – no matter what is happening to you or around you – that this earthly experience is a totally safe, meaningful, and magnificent adventure amidst forever.  Visit SoulProof.com for FREE books, audio programs, documentary film, articles, radio shows, and newsletters. 

 

 

 

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