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Evolved Souls Don't Need Long Earthly Experiences November 2024

Evolved Souls Don't Need Long Earthly Experiences November 2024

  • Posted
    • Oct
    • 14
    • 2024
by Elizabeth Boisson

Evolved Souls Don’t Need Long Earthly Experiences
November2024 by Mark Pitstick, MA, DC


To all family members, I am very sorry about the death of your child’s human form.  (Your daughter and/or son didn't really die even though their earth-suit did.  That's an extremely important distinction.)  I’m glad you are learning how to heal and transform despite this seeming tragedy.  Six key understandings to making that shift are:

     1. Over 99% of who and what your child 'was' is still alive in the next phase of life.  This is true no matter how they passed on.  See the following articles at SoulProof.com for a review of the scientific, clinical, and experiential evidence for this statement.

  1. Again, only their earthly body died: everything else about them continues – all the love, energy, sense of humor, memories, personality, energetic / spiritual body, and much more.

  2. They are happy, peaceful, loving, and enthusiastic – and want you to be that way now too. Read article #2 When a Child Changes Worlds and #93 For Bereaved Parents and Family Members to learn how you can do that. 

         4. You will see them when you pass on and can enjoy a different kind of relationship now.  To learn more about how you can do this, see article #9 Visit With ‘Departed’ Loved Ones Now
     
         5. You can choose – moment by moment – to transmute your grief into a spiritually transformative experience that powerfully improves your life and blesses others.  To learn how, see article #82 Journey from 'Bereaved' to 'Shining Light'

         6. You can heal and share gifts from their life and transition from earth by lovingly serving others.  Read article #84 Heal and Transform Your Suffering.

   

After a child changes worlds, family members understandably feel much pain, sadness, anger, guilt, and other lower-energy emotions.   No one could or should ever judge that.  However, many have learned to regularly use keys #1 - 6 above and, over time, and feel more peace, joy, love, and gratitude.  To learn more about how you can do this, see article #108 Higher Energies, Emotions, and Ways of Being.    

You can do the same.  It’s not easy and it doesn’t happen overnight, but it is possible with small steps day by day using the above keys and six action steps . . .

  1. Attend online HPH meetings on the Calendar and attend local Affiliate Groups.  (If there's not an in-person group nearby, consider staring one.)   

 

  1. Use Special Interest Groups that offer more focused service for fathers, siblings, parents of children who passed by suicide or substance abuse, and much more.

  2. Contact The Caring Listeners to talk with at no charge

 

  1. Read free articles at SoulProof.com and take relevant action steps

 

  1. Listen to free Radio Shows at SoulProof.com and experts' answers to life’s toughest questions including “Why do children die?”

 

  1. Lean on others as needed. Later, when you are doing better, you can help others. 

 

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Q: I truly love everything you share with HPH.  I lost my son 2 years ago and have been desperately trying to connect with him through deep relaxation and guided imagery.  I have tried yours and others, but have difficulty seeing him in my mind.  Any suggestions about how I can get around this?

A: It's an honor to help you enjoy real and meaningful contacts with your son.  I am sorry for your pain and suffering, but glad you know he is alive, well, and can be contacted.  To better do that, please upgrade your language from 'lost' to 'my son transitioned / ascended / graduated / passed on / crossed over' or other term that more accurately what happens.  To assist using more conscious language, see that part of the Shining Light Parents Speak book.    

 

Some people don't visualize well so it's not a problem if you can't see him.  Your primary mode of sensing might be feeling, hearing, and/or knowing so focus on those even if the presenter says 'see' during the session.  

 

Another suggestion is to don't 'desperately' try to contact him.  That's a lower energy / emotion that's not on the same wavelength as those that predominate in realms where he is now.  (Search for 'Map of Consciousness' by David R. Hawkins MD, PhD to better understand how your energy / focus affects your views about the nature of reality, Creator, and all aspects of your life.)  A more conscious term for 'desperately' could be 'expectantly, enthusiastically, or joyfully'.  

 

I assume you've tried my Facilitated Afterlife Contact technique as described in article #9 at SoulProof.com: Visiting ‘Departed’ Loved Ones Now

 

This method works better when you shed lower-energy emotions beforehand.  (These include anger, guilt, deep sadness, regret, and others that are common after a loved one passes on.) Those feelings and resulting ways of being can hamper or block efforts at contact.  Three ways to release these, quiet your brain, and prepare for better communication include: 

 

  1. Holistic Breathing Technique article #70   

 

  1. Centering Practices article #77

 

  1.  c. Meditation and Yoga article #51

 

Please use this combination for 60 days and let me know how you're doing at that time.  And to you, and all parents, let me know if you have any questions about this or any topic.

 

Hugs, love, and blessings as you heal, transform, and shine!

Mark


Note #1: As long as my schedule allows, I will email brief but information and resource-packed replies to parents, siblings, and other close family member at no charge.  Just email me at mark@soulproof.com with your biggest questions and toughest challenges and I'll create a personalized holistic program for you.   

 

Note #2: My inexpensive audio products, books, and documentary film can help you heal, optimally transform, discover the silver linings to your child's bodily death, and use those to help yourself and others.  Email me if you cannot afford any of these products and we’ll send a complimentary digital copy.  

 

Disclaimer: This information is not designed to replace medical or psychological care.  Dr. Pitstick’s recommendations are based on over fifty years of training and experience in hospitals, pastoral counseling settings, mental health centers, and chiropractic holistic health practice.  Some of his statements are supported by clinical and scientific data while others are based on experiential evidence and his best current understandings.  

Mark Pitstick, MA, DC is an author, counselor with a masters in clinical psychology, holistic chiropractic physician, frequent media guest, and workshop / webinar teacher.  Mark also completed extensive postgraduate training in clinical nutrition.  While attending theology school majoring in pastoral counseling, he provided suicide prevention counseling and education.  Mark directs The SoulPhone Foundation, founded Greater Reality Living groups, and assists SoulPhone Project research for the Laboratory for Advances in Consciousness and Health.  His mission is to help you know and show – no matter what is happening to you or around you – that this earthly experience is a totally safe, meaningful, and magnificent adventure amidst forever.  Visit SoulProof.com for free articles, radio shows, and newsletters. 

 

 

 

 

 

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