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Evolved Souls Don't Need Long Earthly Experiences - September 2024

Evolved Souls Don't Need Long Earthly Experiences - September 2024

  • Posted
    • Aug
    • 6
    • 2024
by Elizabeth Boisson

Evolved Souls Don’t Need Long Earthly Experiences
 September 2024 by Mark Pitstick, MA, DC


To all family members, I am very sorry about the death of your child’s human form.  (Your daughter and/or son didn't really die even though their earth-suit did.  That's an extremely important distinction.)  I’m glad you are learning how to heal and transform despite this seeming tragedy.  Six key understandings to making that shift are:

     1. Over 99% of who and what your child 'was' is still alive in the next phase of life.  This is true no matter how they passed on.  See the following articles at SoulProof.com for a review of the scientific, clinical, and experiential evidence for this statement.

  1. Again, only their earthly body died: everything else about them continues – all the love, energy, sense of humor, memories, personality, energetic / spiritual body, and much more.

  2. They are happy, peaceful, loving, and enthusiastic – and want you to be that way now too. Read article #2 When a Child Changes Worlds and #93 For Bereaved Parents and Family Members to learn how you can do that. 

         4. You will see them when you pass on and can enjoy a different kind of relationship now.  To learn more about how you can do this, see article #9 Visit With ‘Departed’ Loved Ones Now
     
         5. You can choose – moment by moment – to transmute your grief into a spiritually transformative experience that powerfully improves your life and blesses others.  To learn how, see article #82 Journey from 'Bereaved' to 'Shining Light'

         6. You can heal and share gifts from their life and transition from earth by lovingly serving others.  Read article #84 Heal and Transform Your Suffering.

   

After a child changes worlds, family members understandably feel much pain, sadness, anger, guilt, and other lower-energy emotions.   No one could or should ever judge that.  However, many have learned to regularly use keys #1 - 6 above and, over time, and feel more peace, joy, love, and gratitude.  To learn more about how you can do this, see article #108 Higher Energies, Emotions, and Ways of Being.    

You can do the same.  It’s not easy and it doesn’t happen overnight, but it is possible with small steps day by day using the above keys and six action steps . . .

  1. Attend online HPH meetings on the Calendar and attend local Affiliate Groups.  (If there's not an in-person group nearby, consider staring one.)   

 

  1. Use Special Interest Groups that offer more focused service for fathers, siblings, parents of children who passed by suicide or substance abuse, and much more.

  2. Contact The Caring Listeners to talk with at no charge

 

  1. Read free articles at SoulProof.com and take relevant action steps

 

  1. Listen to free Radio Shows at SoulProof.com and experts' answers to life’s toughest questions including “Why do children die?”

 

  1. Lean on others as needed. Later, when you are doing better, you can help others. 

 

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Q: My husband and I will attend the conference in a few weeks.  This is our first one since our daughter passed on last year.  We are both nervous and wondering how we can have the best experience.  Any suggestions?

 

A: Kudos for asking this important question.  There will be over 1000 people and LOTS of higher energies of love, joy, peace, and gratitude.  

 

That's a lot of energy to walk into.  When I present to large groups at HPH, I can feel waves of emotions and have to take a few deep breaths to get centered before proceeding.  I suggest the following for you and your husband.  In general, it amounts to listening to your body, heart, and mind . . . 

 

  1. Get lots of rest and relaxation. This is important to do before, during, and after the conference. Let yourself sleep in, take time for meditation, and enjoy the amenities of this beautiful setting.   

 

  1. Use moderation: Don't feel like you have to attend presentations every time slot. Allow yourself to enjoy the pool, workout, or relax if that seems inviting. 

 

  1. Stay grounded. It's wonderful to be around so many enthusiastic people, but be aware if it feels like too much too quickly for you.  Walk barefoot in water and grass (unless it's sprayed with harmful chemicals -- ask the front desk) for earthing benefits.  Watch a sunrise or sunset.  Stroll around the grounds and enjoy the landscaping.   

 

  1. Eat healthfully. Being around that many people can take extra energy on your part.  Have healthy snacks available in case you feel your blood sugar dropping.  Be sure to drink a lot of pure water to stay hydrated and help your energy flow.

 

  1. Use your inner discernment to determine which speakers to attend. Say a prayer / set an intention to know which ones to go to.  Then scan the schedule and see which ones 'pop out' or feel right to you. 

 

  1. Ask for assistance. Many shining light parents are honored and eager to help so please don't hesitate to ask.  Use the mediums who offer readings and ask for help at the information tables.  During and after a presentation, ask questions and share what you need. 

 

  1. Include your daughter in the experience. Talk with her as if she's really there since she quite likely will be.  That will help you shift FROM 'My husband and I are here because our daughter's body died' TO 'My husband, I, AND our beloved daughter are here to learn, grow, heal, and transform!  Together, we are going to find and share the silver linings that will bless us and many people.' 

 

  1. Fill in the blank. What else feels right so you and your husband have a wonderful conference?   Trust and honor your inner knowing to make this happen.  You two deserve to have a wonderful life and the world is just waiting for you to shine more brightly. 

 

(For parents who aren't attending the conference, consider a mini-conference wherever you are.  Follow the suggestions above that seem right for you.  Use the resources listed under Shining Light Resources and soak up all the information, hope, and inspiration therein.  Use the power and hope from the Phoenix conference to jumpstart your own recovery and shift.)  

 

To you, and all parents, please let me know if you have any questions about this or any topic.

 

Hugs, love, and blessings as you heal, transform, and shine!

Mark


Note #1: As long as my schedule allows, I will email brief but information and resource-packed replies to parents, siblings, and other close family member at no charge.  Just email me at mark@soulproof.com with your biggest questions and toughest challenges and I'll create a personalized holistic program for you.   

 

Note #2: My inexpensive audio products, books, and documentary film can help you optimally heal, transform, discover the silver linings to your child's transition, and use those to help yourself and others.  Email me if you cannot afford any of these products and we’ll send a complimentary digital copy.  

 

Disclaimer: This information is not designed to replace medical or psychological care.  Dr. Pitstick’s recommendations are based on over fifty years of training and experience in hospitals, pastoral counseling settings, mental health centers, and chiropractic holistic health practice.  Some of his statements are supported by clinical and scientific data while others are based on experiential evidence and his best current understandings.  

Mark Pitstick, MA, DC is an author, counselor with a masters in clinical psychology, holistic chiropractic physician, frequent media guest, and workshop / webinar teacher.  Mark also completed extensive postgraduate training in clinical nutrition.  While attending theology school majoring in pastoral counseling, he provided suicide prevention counseling and education.  Mark directs The SoulPhone Foundation, founded Greater Reality Living groups, and assists SoulPhone Project research for the Laboratory for Advances in Consciousness and Health.  His mission is to help you know and show – no matter what is happening to you or around you – that this earthly experience is a totally safe, meaningful, and magnificent adventure amidst forever.  Visit SoulProof.com for free articles, radio shows, and newsletters. 

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